Q. is it? Alot of ppl at my school have all ready had it and one at my school is pregnet and she is 13.
A. Sweetie,
You say "virgin" like it's a bad thing. You are only given your virginity ONCE-- once, in your whole life. Imagine how special something would have to be to only have it ONCE. You get a cake and a birthday every year, you get new clothes for school every fall, you even occasionally get baby siblings or cousins.
Your virginity is something you ought to treasure. The longer you hold onto it, the better off you are. Your friend at school who is pregnant has given away something she can never get back, and that is something that will change the course of her life forever, if she can carry the baby to term (not to scare you, but a lot of times when a girl gets pregnant that young, the baby is premature or stillborn)
So, to answer your question: you hold onto your innocence as long as you can. If you can take it all the way through middle school, you should be proud. If you can take it all the way through high school, which is even harder, you should be even prouder. And if you can manage to get through college and still have your virginity, then you will have given whoever you marry THE GREATEST gift that anyone can give him: the idea that he is SO special, you saved it JUST FOR HIM.
I know how cute boys can be, and how crazy about them we girls can get ~ but trust me, if you let one of them talk you into giving away your virginity, when the guy who's so wonderful that you never even realized that men could be made so perfectly comes along, you are going to want to be able to say to him, "I've waited for you" and be able to prove it.
You say "virgin" like it's a bad thing. You are only given your virginity ONCE-- once, in your whole life. Imagine how special something would have to be to only have it ONCE. You get a cake and a birthday every year, you get new clothes for school every fall, you even occasionally get baby siblings or cousins.
Your virginity is something you ought to treasure. The longer you hold onto it, the better off you are. Your friend at school who is pregnant has given away something she can never get back, and that is something that will change the course of her life forever, if she can carry the baby to term (not to scare you, but a lot of times when a girl gets pregnant that young, the baby is premature or stillborn)
So, to answer your question: you hold onto your innocence as long as you can. If you can take it all the way through middle school, you should be proud. If you can take it all the way through high school, which is even harder, you should be even prouder. And if you can manage to get through college and still have your virginity, then you will have given whoever you marry THE GREATEST gift that anyone can give him: the idea that he is SO special, you saved it JUST FOR HIM.
I know how cute boys can be, and how crazy about them we girls can get ~ but trust me, if you let one of them talk you into giving away your virginity, when the guy who's so wonderful that you never even realized that men could be made so perfectly comes along, you are going to want to be able to say to him, "I've waited for you" and be able to prove it.
What can I get a 24 year old for their birthday who is 6 months pregnant ...ideas?
Q. Been holding off for the perfect gift but just can't think of anything. Other than a "snoozle" which is a snake like body pillow to sleep with for support during pregnancy. Anyone have any ideas? I always get her lotions or candles...etc. But, I want to get her something "for her" that she might enjoy during pregnancy...and maybe after. HELP! (she is a good friend but not supper close...)
A. Either one of them:
One Pedicure Session
One facial or Body Massage
Pregnancy and Parenting books
Pregnancy photo session
Pregnancy Pillow
Body care Kit including stretch marks cream.
Maternity outfits.
One Pedicure Session
One facial or Body Massage
Pregnancy and Parenting books
Pregnancy photo session
Pregnancy Pillow
Body care Kit including stretch marks cream.
Maternity outfits.
Trying to get pregnant, need to raise money, any ideas?
Q. My husband and I would like to have a child together, but he had gotten a vasectomy with his previous marriage, so we need to raise the money to have a reversal done. In my search its about 5,000, I need some ideas on what we can do to raise money..... We are saving up, but it would be nice if we could get to our goal faster.
A. Good luck with your fund raising!
Here are my suggestions:
1) Loans - banks and credit card companies (my friend used Capital One but I am not sure if they still have it as this was a few years ago) offer fertility loans with fair interest rates and payment plans. Maybe see if you can borrow from a family member if your credit history is going to prevent you from getting a loan. DO NOT RESPOND TO ANY PEOPLE WHO EMAIL YOU SAYING THEY CAN GET YOU A LOAN - it is a scam and an invitation for identity theft. You need to go with someone you know in real life or a reputable insured bank.
2) Serious budgeting - I also know couples who have taken part time / seasonal jobs to save up for treatments, sold things on ebay etc . . .
3) See if your employer as a flex spending account - you can set aside money tax free for medical things - everything from IVF to prescriptions to eye glasses and medical procedures such as a etc . . .every little bit helps!
4) If you are comfortable, open a pay pal account and ask close family / friends to contribute instead of purchasing holiday gifts / birthday gifts.
5) See if your doctor has a payment plan
Best wishes to you and your husband - I am a firm believer that where there is a will there is a way . . . you can find a way to do this!
Here are my suggestions:
1) Loans - banks and credit card companies (my friend used Capital One but I am not sure if they still have it as this was a few years ago) offer fertility loans with fair interest rates and payment plans. Maybe see if you can borrow from a family member if your credit history is going to prevent you from getting a loan. DO NOT RESPOND TO ANY PEOPLE WHO EMAIL YOU SAYING THEY CAN GET YOU A LOAN - it is a scam and an invitation for identity theft. You need to go with someone you know in real life or a reputable insured bank.
2) Serious budgeting - I also know couples who have taken part time / seasonal jobs to save up for treatments, sold things on ebay etc . . .
3) See if your employer as a flex spending account - you can set aside money tax free for medical things - everything from IVF to prescriptions to eye glasses and medical procedures such as a etc . . .every little bit helps!
4) If you are comfortable, open a pay pal account and ask close family / friends to contribute instead of purchasing holiday gifts / birthday gifts.
5) See if your doctor has a payment plan
Best wishes to you and your husband - I am a firm believer that where there is a will there is a way . . . you can find a way to do this!
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