Domo
Its A Little Girl
Any Ideas?
Thanks!
Answer
At the age of 1, the party is for YOU and Grandma... Not the kid...
I'm not kidding here... You could lock the kid in a closet while all the adults get drunk to calibrate the baby's 1st birthday and then jingle some keys in front of her the next day and there will be absolutely no difference between that and if you spent a million dollars on clowns and toys and a cake the size of your home.
Put the money you want to spend on a party and toys into a savings account for her...
Until the age of about 3, nothing you do that is Positive will really accomplish anything. The ONLY real things that have an impact on a child before the age of 5 are negative things...
So focus on not hitting the kid, not being intoxicated in front of the kid, getting any mental illness treated and under control, make sure that she has a HEALTHY AND STABLE family of origin so that in these prime developmental years, her brain biology develops in a healthy way...
Having a perfectly healthy family results in a "Normal Adult" but even the slightest bit of abuse/trauma/chaos in the family of origin damages the brain and even even alters her genetic development and increase the risk of cancer, diabetes, obesity, addiction, etc.
Give your child the best birthday present you can give her and work on making yourself and your husband HEALTHY PEOPLE that won't screw her up and damage her mentally and physically.
(I don't know you... I'm just playing the statistical odds that you have issues that need to be worked on.)
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⺠NOVA Science Now - Topic: The Epigenome: http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/nova/sciencenow/3411/02.html
Streaming:
http://video.google.com/videosearch?q=The+Ghost+in+your+Genes&emb=0&aq=f#
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^They demonstrate the impact of damaged parents on otherwise healthy offspring by taking a "Depressed Mouse" and a "Healthy Mouse" and swap their babies out so that the "Genetically Heatlhy" mice were raised by the "Depressed Mother" and the babies with the genetics for depression were raised by the "Healthy Mother" and the HEALTHY babies raised by the depressed mother ended up unhealthy, fat, depressed, and it even changed their fur color... While the babies with the genetics for depression grew up to be healthy and happy mice.
This has been shown to be the case with humans, too, since 2005 when they released this documentary.
ALL that matters is what YOU and the father do to stay healthy because THAT will impact your child more than anything you can 'Buy' for her.
At the age of 1, the party is for YOU and Grandma... Not the kid...
I'm not kidding here... You could lock the kid in a closet while all the adults get drunk to calibrate the baby's 1st birthday and then jingle some keys in front of her the next day and there will be absolutely no difference between that and if you spent a million dollars on clowns and toys and a cake the size of your home.
Put the money you want to spend on a party and toys into a savings account for her...
Until the age of about 3, nothing you do that is Positive will really accomplish anything. The ONLY real things that have an impact on a child before the age of 5 are negative things...
So focus on not hitting the kid, not being intoxicated in front of the kid, getting any mental illness treated and under control, make sure that she has a HEALTHY AND STABLE family of origin so that in these prime developmental years, her brain biology develops in a healthy way...
Having a perfectly healthy family results in a "Normal Adult" but even the slightest bit of abuse/trauma/chaos in the family of origin damages the brain and even even alters her genetic development and increase the risk of cancer, diabetes, obesity, addiction, etc.
Give your child the best birthday present you can give her and work on making yourself and your husband HEALTHY PEOPLE that won't screw her up and damage her mentally and physically.
(I don't know you... I'm just playing the statistical odds that you have issues that need to be worked on.)
â®âââ®âââ®âââ®âââ®âââ®ââ
⺠NOVA Science Now - Topic: The Epigenome: http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/nova/sciencenow/3411/02.html
Streaming:
http://video.google.com/videosearch?q=The+Ghost+in+your+Genes&emb=0&aq=f#
â®âââ®âââ®âââ®âââ®âââ®ââ
^They demonstrate the impact of damaged parents on otherwise healthy offspring by taking a "Depressed Mouse" and a "Healthy Mouse" and swap their babies out so that the "Genetically Heatlhy" mice were raised by the "Depressed Mother" and the babies with the genetics for depression were raised by the "Healthy Mother" and the HEALTHY babies raised by the depressed mother ended up unhealthy, fat, depressed, and it even changed their fur color... While the babies with the genetics for depression grew up to be healthy and happy mice.
This has been shown to be the case with humans, too, since 2005 when they released this documentary.
ALL that matters is what YOU and the father do to stay healthy because THAT will impact your child more than anything you can 'Buy' for her.
Mom's 50th Birthday!! Gift Ideas?
youreariot
Mom is turning the big 5-0. My father, my brother, and I are throwing her a surprise party and flying out her friends from back home (we moved awhile ago) and we know that "being thogether is the best gift" but seriously... we want to buy her something.
She doesn't like any spa things, clothes, or jewelry since that's always what everyone gets her, thus asking you guys... We're putting together a basket of good gifts and gag ones. We've already got custom m&ms, a custom wine glass, and a slap-chop (inside joke).
Be creative and thank you!!
Answer
For my mothers big 50, I purchesed a dancing skeleton. Of coarse her bithday is in October, and I am not sure were you could find one in May. This article was for Mothers Day gifts but they will work for birthdays.
For my mothers big 50, I purchesed a dancing skeleton. Of coarse her bithday is in October, and I am not sure were you could find one in May. This article was for Mothers Day gifts but they will work for birthdays.
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