How do I get my Virgo man to forgive me?

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Hello,

I am an Aries women who recently started dating a Virgo man. I met him through a mutal friend so I didn't want to date him. He lied to me to get my phone number. He knew I was starting a new career so he said he knew someone that could give me a job. He started calling and asked to take me out one evening. I told him I didn't feel comfortable dating him since he was a friend of a friend. He didn't listen and pursued me.. He bought me flowers for our first date and took me to a fancy restaurant. I was impressed. He wanted to know everything about me, so being the honest Aries that I am, I told him everything.
We dated for a few weeks and he continued to wine and dine me. He even sent balloons to my house congratulating me for getting my license as an esthetician.
So things were good and he asked me to go to the Bahamas with him. He agreed to pay for everything! I told him I had nothing to wear so he gave me $1,000 to go shopping in advance.

Now on our trip, we shared all kinds of secrets and told each other everything. He told me about 2 other women he had been dating. He never said that he would stop dating them. He did however try to explain why they fell short of being his perfect partner, but there was really no valid reason.

We get back from our trip and spend the whole weekend together. Go to a couple of movies, he takes me to get my nails done, etc.. A week later I ask him if he has seen any of these women after our trip. He tells me that one of them came by his house! I flipped out and lost it..

So I sent him a very hurtful email trying to end things but really giving him an ultimatium. I told him that I was not going to date him at the same time as he dates other women. I told him that he had to date me exculsively. The hurtful things that I said were that I don't need him or his money and that he can't buy me. I said that he couldn't do anything for me that I couldn't do for myself and that I didn't think he met my standards and could never be the one I wanted.

After sending the email, I felt bad. Aries do these types of things out of anger and don't think twice. So I started to regret what I did. I then sent him a message 2 days later, apologizing for the mean things I said. He didn't respond till 2 days later. He acted as if nothing had happened and I encouraged him to talk about it.. He really didn't have a lot to say and acted very cool with me..

The next day I contacted him and he asked me if I had some candles he had purchased in the Bahamas. He had purchased the candles as a gift for someone but at the same time suggested I give them to my mom. I told him that I gave the candles away to a friend because I thought he didn't want them. He then flipped out and went crazy on me! All the sudden everything started to come out. He started calling me ungreatful and selfish, etc..

We are now on speaking terms as we were before. We had a long talk again yesterday and he said he wants things to go back to the way that they were, but he is hurt and it will take him time to get over what I did.

So now I'm wondering what I can do to get him to forgive me. His birthday is Sept. 3rd and he told me I could something nice for him to make it up to him, but I have no idea what to do!!!!! I feel under pressure now!

Can anyone help me figure out how to make things better?

Answer
one of my sis's is an aries...yeah, she would be selfish and ungrateful same as you and lash out anyway. (over and over and over again...will he be able to take it?) but she can also be happy and fun to hang around with. now, my other sis is a virgo and she does 'take' that kind of behavior from my sis with a grain of salt, however, that is our family dynamics. if she werent our sister, she wouldnt forgive what your guy has done for you. so, youre lucky that virgos are fairly level headed and think things thru. some groveling and affection ? hehe i dont know, but my virgo sis seems to love that. :)
as for virgo men...im not sure, ive only met one who claims his birthday the same as your guy. while he's dating other women so easily, it's a wonder you stick around. but, aries girls do like to be catered to above all else.

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