looking for good gift.?

brazelt

ok my sister in law, my brothers wife, just found out she's pregnant and her birthdays coming up, its march 2, and I need to find her I great gift. shes turning 23. I thought about getting her some maternity clothes but couldnt find a good store. she wears plus size clothing so its a little harder. If anybody knows a good plus size maternity store, or another good gift idea then pls help. no baby clothes....!

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My friend recently found out she is pregnant. It wasn't her birthday but I bought her a Pregnancy Journal they sell them at The Hallmark Store and other book stores. They are really cute, you can put pictures of your belly, dreams for the baby and other things. You fill in the questions its not a blank journal. She loved it. Just an idea though.

Aanyone have any gift ideas to help my wife feel good about herself after having our baby?

Trevor

My wife had our little baby girl 3 months ago. She has a birthday coming up in about 2 weeks and I want to plan something really special for her. I can't spend HUNDREDS of dollars but I am okay with putting some money into this gift. I want to do something for her that will help her to feel sexy about herself again and get that spark back that she had before she became pregnant.

She already mentioned a massage...but I want to go above and beyond that...ladies...what do you think??
Wow...great ideas!
We just got back from Grand Cayman about a week ago so I don't know about another weekend away (plus we have the baby)

She was never big into lingerie but a new dress or something could be fun...she's a little concious of her body yet.

I worry about the perception of some kind of a class like the strip tease one (and I dont' think she'd be up for that one in particular haha though I wouldn't mind if she was!)

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I have children and every time after I had a baby I would want a makeover. You feel kinda dumpy and unattractive because you've dedicated your body to your unborn child. I would recommend arranging a makeover day for her. Hair, nails, pedicure, massage, the whole 9 yards, then have a girlfriend pick out a pretty dress and shoes for her. Have it delivered to the salon, with a note that says... your Prince is waiting Cinderella! Then have a limo come pick her up at the salon, you be in the limo, dressed to a T, with flowers then take her to dinner all pretty! I would love that and cry my eyes out if someone did that for me.

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Its his birthday BUT???

julie09217

My boyfriends birthday is coming up and as usual says he doesnt want anything, this is the first time im BROKE because i can't work due to being pregnant and a high risk case of losing the baby. Hes been paying the bills and i feel so helpless just sitting here all day. Hes a great guy that says that he just wants for the baby and i to be okay. He deserves something special because he is so special to me. any ideas of what i can do for him for his birthday in my situation?? Also crazy sex is out of the question too..lol doctors orders and i dunno who thats killing more him or i..lol suggestions please?!?! and thanks for reading.
pfunck2099 find some class..and learn to spell..

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every year i tell my wife i want nothing for my birthday ,and every year i secretly hope i get something good.
i know this maybe hard to do with you being pregnant but every year on my wifes birthday i make sure she gets spoiled.
you see everyone thinks for a birthday you should spend a lot of money on a big gift. as you get older you want to spend time more time with the people you love.
in the morning maybe make breakfast.
if you cant spend the whole day together ,when he comes in from work order a takeaway and watch his favourite movie or sports show. at the end of the day give him a small gift and card. the gift doesnt have to be expensive, an idea may be a baby vest or bib with something printed on like daddies baby or daddies little girl or boy , like a gift from your child. hope this helps, steven

What should I get my pregnant wife for her birthday?

KOTS

I'm having a hard time figuring out what to get my wife this year for her birthday. She doesn't want any clothes, shoes, or things that won't fit or are uncomfortable right now since she is pregnant. I usually get her something that she wants really bad but won't buy for herself and then try to do something unique or special but she doesn't really want anything right now. Anyone have any ideas? I don't want to get something related to the baby because I will do that after the baby is born and I want the gift to be about her.

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Get her some birth control! haha! . . .sorry you probably didn't find that very funny. . .

Get her some jewelery like a necklace or something like that. If she likes being pampered, offer her a day at the spa (with or without you). If she is sore or achy like some pregnant women, she'll appreciate a massage or or maybe a pedicure!

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What to get husband for 30th birthday?

Jessica Va

So his birthday is November 7th. I'm currently 8months pregnant with our first baby, so my estimated due date is November 17th. So I need date ideas and present ideas. I was thinking of a nice crab dinner in San Francisco and I wanted to pay off one of his credit cards. I have about $500 to spend. =) ideas?

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You are a great wife......
I think be with him and have nice enjoyable day would be enough~


Ever consider buy sth for yourself?
Rose Gold Lord Cross Love* Hope *Pray Swarovski Crystals Necklace
http://www.ebay.com/itm/HOT-NEW-Rose-Gold-Lord-Cross-Love-Hope-Pray-Swarovski-Crystals-Necklace-/250903001648?pt=LH_DefaultDomain_0&hash=item3a6afbfa30
Also
Here are some great gift for girls if you want as reference for future
Golden Hello Kitty Necklace + White Pearl + Pale Pink Crystal + Rose Gold
Rose Gold Lord Cross Love* Hope *Pray Swarovski Crystals Necklace
18K Rose Gold Pink Blue Red Swarovski Crystals Sweet Peanut Necklace
Kissing Stars Silver & Rose Gold Necklace Love Wishes Gift
http://www.ebay.com/sch/hhh08091983/m.html

What should I get my wife for Christmas?

npmatherne

My wife and I have been married since August 4th. She is 4 months pregnant, and is not big into jewelry, make-up, or perfume. She wants something to OPEN on Christmas morning, so gift certificates or a trip to a day spa or somethign like that are out of the question. She already has an MP3 player. Also, we've set a $100 limit for each other so we don't go financially overboard because of the baby on the way. Any ideas would be greatly appreciated.

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When I was pregnant i the winter I really didn't want to go out much for very odd reasons (afraid of falling, didn't want to get sick, i was just a nervous wreck). My husband would still go out and I was fine with that but he did something really sweet for my birthday I think would make anyone melt....
Date Nite Basket this included
Popcorn
Fleece Blanket
NetFlix Subscription
Chocolates
Flowers (Roses)
Pajamas Small enough to fit me then but I was able to wear them throughout the pregnancy bc stretchy waistband
Robe
Slippers (they were moon so it was like I was wlaking on air)
and a Ring
also he included Date Nite Tickets so that when I wanted a date night i just gave him a ticket and it was on the calander

I LOVED IT!!

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looking for good gift.?

brazelt

ok my sister in law, my brothers wife, just found out she's pregnant and her birthdays coming up, its march 2, and I need to find her I great gift. shes turning 23. I thought about getting her some maternity clothes but couldnt find a good store. she wears plus size clothing so its a little harder. If anybody knows a good plus size maternity store, or another good gift idea then pls help. no baby clothes....!

Answer
My friend recently found out she is pregnant. It wasn't her birthday but I bought her a Pregnancy Journal they sell them at The Hallmark Store and other book stores. They are really cute, you can put pictures of your belly, dreams for the baby and other things. You fill in the questions its not a blank journal. She loved it. Just an idea though.

Aanyone have any gift ideas to help my wife feel good about herself after having our baby?

Trevor

My wife had our little baby girl 3 months ago. She has a birthday coming up in about 2 weeks and I want to plan something really special for her. I can't spend HUNDREDS of dollars but I am okay with putting some money into this gift. I want to do something for her that will help her to feel sexy about herself again and get that spark back that she had before she became pregnant.

She already mentioned a massage...but I want to go above and beyond that...ladies...what do you think??
Wow...great ideas!
We just got back from Grand Cayman about a week ago so I don't know about another weekend away (plus we have the baby)

She was never big into lingerie but a new dress or something could be fun...she's a little concious of her body yet.

I worry about the perception of some kind of a class like the strip tease one (and I dont' think she'd be up for that one in particular haha though I wouldn't mind if she was!)

Answer
I have children and every time after I had a baby I would want a makeover. You feel kinda dumpy and unattractive because you've dedicated your body to your unborn child. I would recommend arranging a makeover day for her. Hair, nails, pedicure, massage, the whole 9 yards, then have a girlfriend pick out a pretty dress and shoes for her. Have it delivered to the salon, with a note that says... your Prince is waiting Cinderella! Then have a limo come pick her up at the salon, you be in the limo, dressed to a T, with flowers then take her to dinner all pretty! I would love that and cry my eyes out if someone did that for me.

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Help!! My wife is blaming me for all of our problems and has treated me poorly for years...?

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Aaron C

Ok, here's the situation. I love my wife and our children (ages 6 and 3), but she's really pushing me over the edge. I am constantly blamed for our problems and I don't really know what to do anymore. We've been married for over 7 years and have been together for over 10 yrs. Our first year together was pretty good, but then things started going south quickly. She started giving me ultimatums (for example, "if we're not engaged by the time I graduate college, I can't be with you"), starting fights about every little thing nearly every night after she finished work, etc. I was not your typical jerk guy who flirted with other girls, partied a lot, or anything like that. She literally had no reason to be mad at me, yet she always was. Long story short, she got pregnant about 2 and 1/2 years into our relationship, we got married, and my life's been very difficult ever since. I know it's my fault for not ending the relationship sooner, but for some unknown reason I'm deeply in love with this woman. Now we have 2 kids and I can't imagine my life without them every day.

Fast forward to 2010, and we have a ton of issues. We got in another HUGE fight last night over some very insignificant things:

A) She was mad because I stayed in the car while she went into Hallmark to buy her friend a birthday gift. I knew she was only going to be 5 minutes or so, because we were on our way to a restaurant where we had reservations. I had no desire to go into Hallmark, so I told her I would just stay in the car. She responded with her typical "whatever" comment and slammed the door. She brought this up last night and said she believes I don't want to be seen in public with her, which is SO not true. I don't even know where she got that idea.

B) We were trying to decide which bar we would visit after dinner. There's a specific bar where all my old buddies for high school hang out (the ones who never did anything with their lives), and I told her I wanted to avoid that one. I cracked a joke about "not wanting to run into any high school ex girlfriends tonight" and she became livid. She brought this up last night, too. I told her it was a joke and she really shouldn't be so insecure, especially since we graduated from HS over 10 years ago.

C) I have bought my wife flowers on numerous occasions throughout our relationship. I usually go by the store and pick them up myself on my way home from work. I try to do this every few months. One time, I ordered flowers for her on Mother's Day and had them delivered to her job. They apparently didn't look as good as they did in the online photo, and she threw a bloody fit. I will never forget that day. Last night, she brought up the fact that I don't order her flowers from florists and have them delivered, and I reminded her exactly why I don't do that. Again, she got really angry and basically said I don't buy her flowers enough, and when I do, they're not from an expensive enough place.

She says I don't show her enough affection, but it's really hard when I feel like I'm mistreated most of the time. I know it's a vicious cycle and we're both at fault for a number of things, but I don't know how to make it stop. We've been to marriage counseling and that didn't work... she actually still holds a grudge against our counselor because she felt like she was being "picked on" the whole time and she wouldn't accept the fact that she's to blame for most of this. I'm not an aggressive type of person or an angry, high-strung person at all. Most of my friends and family agree that I'm just a nice, quiet guy who doesn't get upset or stressed easily, but my wife brings out the worst in me....

Is there anyone out there in a similar situation that can offer some advice?? I really don't want to leave my wife and kids, but it's getting to the point where I'm becoming very depressed and feeling hopeless.

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You don't want to leave your wife or kids, but can't you see you need to do something drastic in order to force her to make a change. Thus far she has ignored the fact that she is mistreating you. My heart goes out to you. She may be a good woman but is caught up in being critical and demanding as a way to et what she wants from you. She needs to get back on the right path and this will only happen when she gets a wake up call. Why not talk to her and tell her how you feel. Then tell her if she is not willing to work with you to change that you are leaving. This does not necessarily mean a divorce, it means you are sending a message to her that you will no longer put up with being mistreated. So far you have stayed and taken it. She feels no need to change as you have shown her you will tolerate this. Suggest counselling with another counselor. If she refuses then it is time to man up and stop allowing her to step all over you. Nice guys like you are so often taken for granted that it kills me to see a well intended woman do all the things to make his life miserable and she ends up losing him. I sure wish you all the best.

looking for good gift.?

brazelt

ok my sister in law, my brothers wife, just found out she's pregnant and her birthdays coming up, its march 2, and I need to find her I great gift. shes turning 23. I thought about getting her some maternity clothes but couldnt find a good store. she wears plus size clothing so its a little harder. If anybody knows a good plus size maternity store, or another good gift idea then pls help. no baby clothes....!

Answer
My friend recently found out she is pregnant. It wasn't her birthday but I bought her a Pregnancy Journal they sell them at The Hallmark Store and other book stores. They are really cute, you can put pictures of your belly, dreams for the baby and other things. You fill in the questions its not a blank journal. She loved it. Just an idea though.

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